Sometimes it's easy. "It". The word is deliciously vague, yet always refers to something specific. I haven't written in two days because "it" wasn't coming to me. The "it" was humour. However, after a brief memory that came to me this morning, I do have an inspiration. "Moms on Strike".
Kids aren't doing their chores and they're not following their schedule. Of course, it's my responsibility to make them follow their schedule but I won't take all the blame because they have a responsibility to follow the rules. Hunter is fighting the little things he's supposed to do and in general, I'm getting severely miffed. Nothing else has changed; they're still asking for this and that; Mom can you make cookies; Mom can you make sure my shirt is clean for tomorrow; Mom can you make this or that; Mom can you take me here.... I'm feeling like ... a Mom.
I've been outside the home many times over the past nine years. Work, school and work; I've not always been at home. I am perfectly aware that whether or not I "have time" to do these things, they will still be requested. Everything still has to be done. My question is why does it have to be so one-sided?
I watched a movie on W once, called Moms on Strike. I honestly don't think I had any personal experience with the whole thing at that point but I didn't doubt the premise. And though I know that as much as I would like to go on strike, it is unlikely to happen. In fact, I consider the past two days of being outrageously tired and falling asleep while everyone else enjoyed a nice dinner as a "feeler" for being on strike. As I suspected, I just have more to do now. So a strike doesn't seem like a good idea at all. Maybe I just needed the reminder. In writing. "Hi-ho, Hi-ho" people. Those dishes aren't going to wash themselves. Grumble, grumble.
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